Whenever a person forms a negative or fear-based attachment to you (such as being afraid that you’ll leave, or believing that you are his or her source of energy or happiness), a cord is constructed between the two of you. When a needy person has formed an attachment to you, that person suctions energy from you through this etheric cord. You may not see it but you can perceive its effects – namely feeling tired or sad without knowing why. Well, it’s because the person at the other end has just drawn on your power or sent you toxic energy through the cord.
So, anytime you’ve helped someone or whenever you are feeling lethargic, sad or tired, it’s a good idea to “cut your cords”. You aren’t rejecting, abandoning or divorcing the person by cutting these bonds. You’re only severing the dysfunctional, fearful, codependent area of the relationship. The loving part of it remains attached.
To cut your cords, say either mentally or aloud:
“Archangel Michael, I call upon you now. Please cut the cords of fear that are draining my energy and vitality. Thank you.” Then be silent for a few moments. Be sure to inhale and exhale deeply during the process, as breath opens the door for angels to help you.